Saturday, December 31, 2011
Top 25 Moments from 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Merry Christmas
As I'm writing this it's Wednesday, four days until Christmas. I had an interesting conversation this morning with a kid in our neighborhood. He's in the 6th grade and comes to our house each morning to have breakfast and walk to school with Abbey and me. His mom's a single parent and works long hours in order to provide for three kids. She leaves early and comes home late most days.
Last week he noticed some Christmas presents under our tree and jokingly asked which one was his. He was surprised, and thrilled, when Abbey went over and pointed to his Christmas present - it had his name on it. Everyday since he's asked "When can I open my present?"
But today, as we were walking out the door he asked a different question. He asked "Did you get me a present because I'm poor?" I have to say I was not expecting the question and something inside of me broke when I heard it. But somehow, God gave me a quick response. I said "You're one of the richest people I know."
On the walk to school he asked me what I meant when I said he was one of the richest people I knew. I told him that everyday when he comes to our house, regardless of what's going on, he always has a smile on his face and is always happy about something. I told him he was rich in joy and that everyday he makes my day better because of who he is. I'm not sure if he understood what I was saying but someday he will.
It's hard to have joy sometimes, especially when things are not going well for us but are going well for others. But if a 6th grade kid can find joy in the middle of a difficult life, surrounded by friends and peers who have so much more than him, then so can we.
I think that's a big part of the Christmas story. So many people, in difficult circumstances, finding joy because of a baby that changed the world. I hope no matter what the circumstances are in your life this Christmas that you will have an experience like mine this week to remind you of what a joyful time this is.
Merry Christmas!
Sunday, September 25, 2011
What's Your Question?
- Family Ministry
- Small Groups
- Vulnerable Children Initiative
- Strategic Objectives
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
30-Day Scripture Challenge - Day 9
But Samuel replied,
“What is more pleasing to the Lord:
your burnt offerings and sacrifices
or your obedience to his voice?
Listen! Obedience is better than sacrifice,
and submission is better than offering the fat of rams.
Rebellion is as sinful as witchcraft,
and stubbornness as bad as worshiping idols.
So because you have rejected the command of the Lord,
he has rejected you as king.”
Saturday, September 17, 2011
30-Day Challenge - Week 1
Friday, September 16, 2011
Perspective
Across Kenya, the unemployment rate is 40 percent and 50 percent of Kenyans live below the poverty line. The World Bank defines the poverty line as people living on less than $1.25 a day."Less than $1.25 a day." I'm sitting at Starbucks drinking a $4 latte while I read this. Talk about putting things in perspective.
Monday, September 12, 2011
30-Day Challenge - Day 1
The challenge is part of a Sunday series we're doing on 5 of the habits we need to establish in order to grow spiritually. I'll be blogging along the way.
Today (day 1) we read about the fall of humanity in Genesis where Adam and Eve give in to temptation eat the fruit from the forbidden tree.
A couple of observations about the story:
1. There decision affected a lot of people - actually everyone. But one thing I think we tend to forget is how their decision to disobey God must have affected God. I tend to forget about God's emotions. And the fact it he created Adam and Eve out of love and he loved them more than anything else he created. It must have been painful when they walked away from him.
2. No one took responsibility for their choices. Adam pointed at Eve and Eve pointed at the serpent and the serpent had no where to go. And really we're not different. We still tend to point the finger and blame someone else for our poor choices.
So what are your observations from this story? Did you see anything new when you read it again?
Saturday, July 23, 2011
Sacrifice
This quote seemed to summed it up the best.
"I started out to cross the beach with thirty-five men and only six got to the top, that's all." - 2nd Lt. Bob Edlin
Thursday, July 7, 2011
"127 Hours"
It's a story of what a human being is capable of doing in order to survive. It's not for the faint at heart but I highly recommend it.
Always leave a note.
Friday, July 1, 2011
Where Everybody Knows Your Name
Cheers captured the idea that there's a place that's a safe haven from the world, a place where people know you and accept you for who you are, where you can be yourself.
It's a little like how I feel when I walk into the Starbucks near my house and the barista says, "Hey David. You having ice tea or a latte today?" I love that. I love that feeling of being in a comfortable place, where someone remembers me and what I like, where I can be myself and there's no expectations from those around me; just acceptance.
That's what I want for the church. And not just the church that I pastor, but for every local church and for "the church" in general - the body of Jesus followers around the world. I'm so thankful that I have the opportunity to pastor a church that's well on it's way to being a modern day "Cheers." I'm also thankful for the the influence that I, and our church, have been given to help other churches get there.
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Heroes and Villains - Hannah: Finding Hope When It's Hopeless
The stories we'll be looking at are some of the more obscure ones; a lot of folks have probably never heard some of them. While they are all unique they all have one thing in common - how God worked in the story is still affecting the world, in some way, today.
This Sunday we'll talk about Hannah and a very special prayer that changed her life completely. Her life did a 180 as a result of the prayer she prayed. In a nutshell, Hannah was desperate. She was at the end of her rope, hopeless and at the biggest dead-end of her life.
Have you ever been there? Where you just didn't see how life was ever going to make sense again? Where you were in such pain that you couldn't even describe it with words?
That's where Hannah was. And in the middle of her pain, in the middle of this big mess, she did something very, very wise - she prayed. And that prayer changed everything for Hannah and ultimately changed the nation of Israel.
You can check out the sermon online here.
Here's three truths from Hannah's story that we'll unpack this Sunday:
- God's power begins to work at the point of your hopelessness.
- God will use your suffering but don't assume you'll be able to figure out how.
- Sometimes all we can do is just hold on!
Friday, June 24, 2011
New Dream (Repost and Update)
I can handle the difficulties, delays and the dead-ins. In fact there's a weird part of me that enjoys those phases in some ways. Given my personality and strengths, that's when I tend to shine.
But I'm not a risk taker. I like things mapped out. I don't mind challenges, but I like to see them coming so I can hit them head-on. So the second phase of a dream,Decision, is the hardest for me to move through.
It scares me because I know once I have the vision I will have to make the decision to go after it. And making the decision is that point where you feel like you're suspended in mid-air, 100 feet above the ground, with no net below, holding on to a rope with all your might. Not my idea of fun.But more than anything else in the world I want to be where God wants me to be. So that means saying yes even when it's scary. Even when it's uncomfortable. Even when everything inside me says "don't do it." Even when I don't know what I'm saying yes to.
Because it's not about WHAT I'm saying yes to, it's about WHO I'm saying yes to.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Don't Walk Alone
Thursday, June 9, 2011
What I'm Reading
- Parenting Beyond Your Capacity by Reggie Joiner and Carey Nieuwhof – I recommended this book a couple of Sundays ago. I think every parent should read this book. It will also give you a good idea of where we are going with our family ministry at FCBC. We’ve given away around 20 copies and still have some left in the foyer outside the worship center.
- Steering Through Chaos by Scott Wilson – Our staff is reading this book together and discussing it each week. Scott is a pastor who writes to other pastors out of his wisdom and experience.
- Soul Print by Mark Batterson – I’m reading this with my small group right now. This is Mark’s fourth book and he’s about to publish his fifth. Mark has a great writing style. He has a way of taking complicated spiritual matters and framing them in a simple, understandable way. I’ve met Mark personally and have a lot of respect for him as a person and pastor.
- The Shallows by Nicolas Carr – This was recommended by a friend and the title sounded interesting. It’s about what the internet is doing to our brains.
Friday, May 27, 2011
If You Must Die...
What do you think our communities and our world would look like if every church and every follower of Christ took that as their life goal?
Thursday, May 26, 2011
One Type of Friend Everyone Needs
Monday, May 9, 2011
The Power of Feedback
I know a lot of people though, who see feedback or editing as a threat. I don't get that. I would much rather be affective than original any day of the week. And a part of being affective is being clear.
Here's a blog post from Seth Godin. He's very clear about being clear. Enjoy.
Share your confusions
If you're building for digital, for a place where you can't possibly be present to guide or to answer questions, I think it's vital you have someone who can review your work. Same for instruction manuals, secret ballots and road signs.Not to make suggestions to make it better (what do they know?) but to share their confusions.I don't think that's a phrase, but it should be. Share your confusions is a way of asking someone to dissect your work and point out what's not totally clear.
Monday, April 25, 2011
An Update From Africa
He is risen! He is risen indeed!
What a great phrase to say, because it carries in it so much meaning for us as believers. I had the opportunity today to teach this phrase to a group of pastors who had come from all over the Nyanza province to worship with us. It was a such a great experience to hear, after several practice tries, the entire body saying back as loudly as they could 'He is risen indeed!' I heard that so many times growing up, and said it so many times, I almost forgot the power that such a tiny phrase has for us, and it was great to receive a reminder.
Things have been going well so far here in Kenya. I am not going to go into too much detail, but it has been a good trip so far, as we have been traveling all over the country meeting with different groups. It is exciting to see all these pastors coming and being enthusiastic about learning more about sports ministry and how they can use it. Since I was first here in Kenya last March, the idea of sports ministry has spread like wildfire here. We had that large training in Mombasa where over 300 churches were represented, and from there it has grown to a rather astonishing size. Literally hundreds of camps and teams have been run and put together by churches all over the country, and they are just looking for more information to help them continue to move forward. It has been a blessing to see how God has used such a simple tool as sports evangelism to change the lives of so many.
Our trip turns south in a few days, and I mean the direction, not in a bad way. If you received my newsletter you know that Levi and I will be traveling down through Tanzania, spending a few days there, and then finishing up the trip with a week in Malawi. Please keep our travels in your prayers, as well as that God will set up the right leaders to meet with out in those areas.
By now most of you have probably heard that I caught malaria. One of my brothers already offered to come over and take care of the mosquito for me, so that was nice to hear! Seriously, it has been one of the most uncomfortable situations I have ever been in, and unfortunately it is not over. I still get really bad headaches, and I have developed some sort of back pain as well that causes a pain to shoot down my lower neck and back every time I take a step. On the positive side, after 4 straight nights of fevers and completely ridiculous sweating because of it, I have had two night free of fever. It still flares up a little during the day, but nothing like before. The rash that I got has seemed to die down a little, which is really nice because it was creeping into my face as well, but please pray that it will completely go away as soon as possible. And probably the best improvement I have seen so far is it seems my stomach is almost back to normal, and I have been able to eat meals for the last couple days, after going three days without eating a thing.
Thank you for your prayers. God has been good, even during the malaria, as great things continue to happen in the side of ministry. One of the negative side affects of the malaria is I have times where I struggle to concentrate, but it hasn't seemed to affect me during our meetings with the leaders just yet.
May God bless you all,
Ryan Van Hoven
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Divine Appointments
Monday, March 14, 2011
Ordinary People
The thing I love most about HRW is it allows ordinary people to be used by God in extraordinary ways. Our team of volunteers is made up of regular folks; none of them have any professional ministry training. They are government workers, school teachers, contractors, accountants, IT professionals, daycare workers, at-home parents, folks who have retired, and so on. Yet the amount of ministry they've achieved this week and the way in which it was done is simply amazing; it's a God thing.
Here's an example of God working in our team:
One of the guys in the shelter (I'll call him "W") was able to secure a job, a pretty good job at that. He's going to be working for the DC Public Schools. The problem is he only had the clothes he was wearing. He was afraid to tell his new employer he was homeless; he was afraid it could cost him his job. And he didn't want to show up everyday at work wearing the same clothes day after day.
Our team recognized that this was "make it or break it" for "W." He needed this job and wanted to succeed and achieve something better for his life. So our team mobilized. By the next evening, when "W" came back, they had several sets of brand new or slightly used clothes for him.
Here's an excerpt from this morning's shift report: "'W' got his clothes and looked good for his first day of work."
I've got to say I got a little emotional when I read that. It may seem like a small thing but to "W" it's huge; it's everything!
That's just one of many examples I heard of this week of ordinary people allowing God to use them to do extraordinary things. That's what being a follower of Christ is all about. And our church is on it's way to changing the statistics of how the world views "the church."
Sunday, March 6, 2011
HRW Launch
I loved how the kitchen crew launched tonight with homemade place-mats that our children's ministry made, real plates and silverware, and the best of all, Chipotle style burritos. The food was amazing, as good as Chipotle itself. Great job to Mike and his crew.
Pray for our guests this week. It's the last week of the program so as the week goes by the stress levels will rise.
Friday, March 4, 2011
What If Charlie Sheen Were In Your Small Group?
http://smallgroupscoach.com/2011/03/what-if-charlie-sheen-were-in-your-small-group/
Saturday, January 22, 2011
A Legacy of Love
The challenge is to take 1 Corinthians 13 and replace the word love with your name. The passage is printed below.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Here's a couple of questions based on what we just did. When I put my name in that passage, does is that me? Does this describe my life? Is this love?
Be in worship tomorrow as we work this out together and figure our how we can leave a legacy of love.
Friday, January 21, 2011
Soulprint
Thursday, January 20, 2011
"Under the Overpass" Review
While sitting in church one Sunday morning, listening to his pastor preach a sermon about living the Christian life, Mike says "Suddenly I was shocked to realize that I had just driven twenty minutes past the world that needed me to be the Christian I say I am, in order to hear a sermon entitled 'Be the Christian You Say You Are.'"
That experience led Mike, and eventually his friend Sam, to chose to live for five months on the streets, totally depending on God and others to sustain them. They had two purposes for the project: Learn to trust God on a significantly deeper level and experience the realities of life as a homeless person. It would be an experience that would change both of them forever.
Mike and Sam chose five cities to live in during the five months. Each chapter is a gritty description of a different city. The book is filled with story after story of the people they met and the encounters they had. I purposely chose to read the book over a period of a couple of months; I wanted to absorb their experiences as much as possible. By the end of the book, as Mike and Sam began the process of coming off the streets and re-entering their old lives, I found myself feeling some of the emotions that they described feeling. Mike's writing style is so captivating it will drawn you into the experience in a unique way.
This is a book that every Christian and every church should read. Mike and Sam visited a lot of churches on their journey. Most of them were less than thrilled to see them walk through their doors and many of them actually refused to allow them in. Mike gives some great insights into how individuals and churches can serve those who are homeless and living on the streets.
If you want to be challenged to "be the Christian you say you are" then this book is a must read.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
The Church and the U.S. Postal Service
- In the 45 minutes we were there the line never got below ten people. At one point there was about twenty-five people waiting in line.
- The people working behind the counter didn't seem to be in a hurry or really concerned about the line of people waiting.
- Things were not clear. It was difficult to figure out which line to be in and the one guy who was trying to help just kept yelling out through out the building instructions.
- I looked around the entire lobby and couldn't find the mission of the USPS anywhere.
- The employees didn't seem to be concerned about customer service at all. In fact what seemed to be communicated was "You need us more than we need you so you have to put up with how we do things."
Monday, January 10, 2011
Sunday Reflection
We also launched a new series called "Legacy." I think it's amazing how God timed it with me getting to baptize Abbey. That was totally unplanned by our team. We're going to be talking about how we can live a life that leaves a legacy behind for generations to come. Can't wait to see what God does.
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Wherever You Are...Be There
Wayne is the founder and CEO of Soles4Souls, a non-profit whose mission is to provide shoes for people who need them.
The quote above hit me like a ton of bricks. When I feel overwhelmed by a task, problem or challenge, my natural instinct is to withdraw when really I need to engage. Wherever I am, I need to be in that moment - engage. He says "Being there is about creating a new reality, better than the current situation."
"We must be the change we want to see in the world." - Gandhi