Think Orange

I’ve just started reading a new book that I'm pretty excited about. I’m actually going to blog through it as I read the ten chapters. The book is called Think Orange: Imagine the Impact When Church and Family Collide... by Reggie Joiner.

You might ask, “Why orange?” Here’s basically what Reggie says about why he chose the color orange. Orange is a secondary color, created when you combine two primary colors – red and yellow. Orange is the outcome of taking two influences and combining them to create a vibrant effect that you couldn't get otherwise.

The principle behind the book is about two entities partnering to make a greater impact or to create a better solution. In practice the book explores the possibilities of what can happen if the church and the home combine efforts for the sake of impacting the next generation.

Reggie writes:

“I am not suggesting that the church and the home merely need to work concurrently and effectively in order to accomplish more…Working on the same thing at the same time is not as effective as working on the same thing at the same time with the same strategy. When you creatively synchronize the two environments, you get more than just red or yellow – you get Orange.”

Here's why I'm excited about this book and the work Reggie and his company have done.

A few years ago, a name was coined by those working education to refer to some of the parents they were encountering. The name was "hover parents." Basically, it describes parents who have a desire to be hands-on in nearly every area of their kids lives, especially their primary education.

The phenomenon took local schools by storm. All of a sudden they didn't just have parents showing up for sporting events to cheer for their kids or getting involved in the PTA. They had parents showing up in the classroom on a regular basis to volunteer. Teachers became inandated with Emails from parents wanting to give input about their kids' education. It created a unique problem for schools and teachers.

That same phenomenon, "hover parents," has reached the church.

Now, while many schools, administrators and teachers viewed it as an intrusion, I think church leaders should see it as divine intervention. A growing number of parents are no longer content to drop their kids off at Sunday School and leave the spiritual growth of their kids up to the local church. They want to be spiritual leaders in their kid's lives.

I'm one of those parents. Nothing gave me more pleasure than baptizing my own son or sitting with my wife and son while our daughter gave her heart to Christ. I love watching my kids grow in their faith and knowing that I am helping to shape that.

I'm also a pastor. And I love watching the church be a part of shaping the lives of kids and standing with parents as they raise spiritual champions.

But back to Reggie and the book. Here's why I am excited about this book. Left on it's own, the "hover parent in the church" phenomenon will cause nothing but frustration for both parents and church leaders. I've already seen some of that frustration in our own church and in other churches around us. The frustration of knowing the goal and seeing the potiential but not knowing how to get there.

But Reggie's company, The Rethink Group, has created some strategies to help churches and parents come together as two leading influences in kids lives to create a vibrant effect that you wouldn't get otherwise - Orange.

Here's an excerpt from the Rethink website:

Children and student ministry brings pressure. It can frustrate and bring joy.
It stresses and exhilarates. It makes you want to share victories and scream for
help. You’re here because you’re looking for answers. OK, you found us. Breathe.

We believe we have answers for you. They are in the form of a ministry strategy that, if you let it, can revolutionize the way you approach children and student ministries—even the way your church functions as a
whole unit.

I'm looking forward to "thinking Orange."